It’s raining hard tonight as I sit here reflecting on my
time in South Africa so far. I don’t know about you, but I find listening to
the rain very comforting. In fact, when I’m at home in Chicago I sit and listen
to the city rain mode on an ipad app. That basically means it has the sound of
rain and an occasional fake car driving by with a honk every now and then. What
can I say? I’m a city girl now. But tonight as I listen to the rain, there are
no familiar sounds. The wind is blowing through the huge purple Jacaranda tree
in my back yard. The Go Away birds have stopped singing (Go away birds are the
birds here that literally sound like they are telling you to go away) and the
Indian couple downstairs have gone to bed.
Seeing that I’m halfway through my first work week in
Johannesburg and I’m less than an hour away from my 30th birthday,
#sigh, I thought I’d take some time to catch you up on the crazy things that
have happened over the past few days. So here goes nothing in no particular
order…
10 Things you
Should Know About My Past Week in South Africa
1)
You never know what you’ll find in your room
when you come home
I arrived home from my first day
of work on Monday exhausted. Talk about drinking from a fire hose, try jumping
into a business plan for an emerging MGO with only 3 weeks to deliver a
successful, sustainable, and implementable business model for geographic
expansion. Just another day at the office here for those of you who think I’m
on a vacation! As I turned the corner into my office where I keep my work
clothes, I was surprised to find a man’s suit hanging on the closet door. Next
to the suit was a cute dress. Next the dress on my desk was a pile of clothes
including men’s socks and underwear and children’s pajamas. Last time I checked
I lived in my apartment alone – or did I get married and procreate in the past
24 hrs? Turns out the missing items belonged to a lovely Indian couple who
lives below me with their little boy. I knocked on her door to return the
missing items and nearly scared the pants off of the woman who lives there. To
Vivenda’s surprise, I was also able to deliver a 2nd pile of clothes
to her this morning that I must have missed yesterday. Hoping to go for round 3
and that she has sent something good to the cleaners tomorrow ;)
2)
Love is in the air
I’m not sure if all of you know,
but I got ENGAGED just before embarking on my adventure in South Africa! The
love of my life and my longtime honey, John, proposed to me at our favorite
restaurant in Chicago before I departed. Although the wedding planning is on a
temporary hold, my friend’s love lives are not. My very best friend called me
in the middle of the night last night not realizing the time different to
inform me she was engaged!!! Can’t wait to start double wedding planning with
her. Although I am very happy for her engagement, I was not happy about the 3
a.m. call. Friendly reminder, I’m 7 hours ahead of CT.
And while you may think this is
exciting enough, there has actually been some very interesting conversations as it relates to love
with my international team here in South Africa. On Monday, our cab driver drove us to the University of Johannesburg. I asked him to turn on music he usually listens to. As he turned on the radio, there was an amazing African dance song playing. But apparently that is not the type of music he listens to, because he turned on the radio to bad early 90's R&B love songs. I guess that's one way to start a work day.
This morning my Indian
teammate Vivek was walking me to the ATM and I asked him how he met his wife.
Is is 29 like me and I was not prepared for his answer. He began by saying,
“Jenny – I actually think you are going to find this very interesting. My wife
and I had an arranged marriage.” Ok, I know what you’re thinking. Of course
India still has arranged marriages, but I’ve never actually met anyone who has
had one. I was very curious as to how one actually gets paired and you probably
wont believe it. There is a marriage bureau in India where parents go to
register their children who aren’t yet married. I can only imagine what my
brothers would do if my parents put their names on a registry at the marriage
bureau. Ha!
He continued explaining that they
didn’t hit it off the first time they met and in fact didn’t really care for
one another the first time, but their parents made them get together a 2nd
time and the rest is history. He had 7 days to accept the marriage arrangement
and they were engaged and married within 6 months. What’s more, they actually
select their wedding date based on their stars! Something I have jotted down to
speak to John about upon my arrival.
3)
Men like reading wedding magazines as much as
women do
I bought 3 South African wedding
magazines tonight for our team pizza party. My man friends loved the mags as
much as the ladies (perhaps more!).
4) I like Indian food
I celebrated a Hindu holiday yesterday
called EID. Nor sure what the purpose was, but the day came complete with a
homemade Indian meal from my new friend Rohit. I think I like Indian food. I
still don’t have a tolerance for spices though which negates the fact that I
like Indian food.
5) Indians eat silver candy

6) The Jacaranda tree is the most beautiful tree
I’ve ever seen

7)
I met the SAP Africa CEO, Pfungwa Serima

After only meeting him for an hour and if
asked to describe Pfungwa in one word, the word I would use to call him is
authentic. He entered the board room where we were working just past noon
wearing a crisp white shirt. He has a welcome smile and commanding presence,
yet makes you feel instantly at ease. Each of the sabbatical teams discussed
our current local projects as well as his overall opinion on the growth of the
African market. It was a fantastic afternoon.
And not to diminish the excitement of
spending time with our African CEO, but the thing that impressed me most was
actually the SAP office – it’s incredible. First of all they have internet. Now
you might not think this is a big deal, but connectivity for both phone and
internet has been an issue since we arrived and definitely something I take for
granted back home. To describe the campus aesthetically, think about a group of
perfect white cottages with huge porches, extensive landscaping, ponds and
bridges, and jacaranda trees. The doors open from both sides like in star trek
and you have a choice of 2 kids of water, sparking or still! Hey, it’s the
little things.
8) Don’t buy train tickets from any place except
the kiosk machine. Why? Because that would be dumb.
I take the underground train to and from
work each day. I live in the suburbs and work in the city, just the opposite of
my commute back home but without the traffic. The train station is about a 10
minute walk from our apartments. On Sunday, George our local consultant, took
us to buy train tickets (pics in previous blog). As he was explaining the route
to us, an announcement came over the intercom. “Do not buy tickets from any
persons or locations outside of the ticket window or kiosk. Why? Because that would
be dumb.” End of message. I wish more American messages could be that blunt.
9. The Awethu Project is a remarkable organization
with remarkable employees
I am absolutely thrilled to be working with
The Awethu Project with Vivek and Soichiro. Not only are my colleagues
incredible, but the employees and the mission of Awethu is awe-inspiring. The
executive team is made up of young professionals with impressive resumes, but
it’s not their resumes that impress me, it’s their willingness to accept
outside feedback that I think is so incredible. I take criticism very hard, so
I can’t imagine what it is like to invite 3 professionals from across the world
into your organization and have them make recommendations for improvements to
your operational plan. A huge thanks goes out to Dale and Kate for putting up
with the 3 of us J
Awethu has 51 employees, has more than 500
entrepreneurs in their incubator, and are hoping to expand to reach another
1500 entrepreneurs in Johannesburg over the next year. They truly want to make
an impact on their community and it shows. Their passion, dedication, and
willingness to accept constructive feedback is going to get them there. I can’t
wait to see where their dream will take the future of South Africa.
10. 30 is going to be a great year
It’s now 12:15 a.m. on October 17 and I’m
officially 30 years old. I am lucky enough to share this special day with my
Auntie Jan who I’m thinking of from afar right now. If you’re reading this,
Happy Birthday Auntie J!
I’m not sure where the year will take me, but
I’m confident that this trip is giving me the life and leadership skills to be
more successful than I ever imagined. Although I don’t want this trip to end,
I’m looking forward to getting home to John and ‘cheers’ing to 30 and to the
rest of our lives together.
As you can see, the adventure continues. Something new every day...
Love you! Love the Blog- even more so. I've decided to adapt the idea of blunt-ness into American culture- when someone asks why- 'That would just be dumb' end of story.
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